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BR #81 BE READY SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO GET READY

Eleonora Gendelman Season 3 Episode 81

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#BR EP. 81 - BE READY SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO GET READY

In this transformative episode, we dive into the idea that nothing in life is wasted, and every experience has prepared you for the incredible future ahead. Learn how to let go of limiting beliefs, embrace your power as a co-creator with the universe, and align your energy with your highest potential. We’ll guide you through specific steps to release regret, shift your energy, and step fully into your greatness!

#BR EP. 81 - BE READY SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO GET READY  //  SELF ENQUIRY

1. Close your eyes and visualize your life six months or a year from now. What does it look like? How does it feel to be living your dream?

2. Send love and gratitude to your past mistakes and setbacks. What can you thank those experiences for, and how did they help shape who you are today?

3. Practice aligning your energy by imagining the emotions of abundance and joy as if your dreams have already come true. How does that change your mindset in the present?

4. Make a commitment to yourself: What limiting beliefs or old patterns will you choose to let go of starting today?

5. Take a moment to shift your focus from future goals to the present. How can you embrace this exact moment, knowing that everything is unfolding perfectly for your highest good?

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TTM #11 YOUR STORY OR HOW TO CHANGE YOUR PAST
TTM #26 RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SELVES
BR #59 YOU ARE A MIRACLE
BR #61 RELAX & TRUST
BR #72 EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS WORKING OUT

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You're standing at the edge of a huge transformation right now, in this very moment, the universe is aligning to bring you everything you've ever dreamed of
 
 those years you thought were lost. They weren't wasted. They were preparation, every setback, every disappointment, every moment of doubt, it was all leading you here to this exact point where you're ready to reclaim your power and step into the life you were meant to live. Think about it. How many times have you told yourself it's too late, or I've missed my chance?
 
 Those thoughts are not reality. They're just stories you've been telling yourself, stories that have kept you playing small stories that have held you back from your true potential. But the universe doesn't operate on our limited timelines. It doesn't care about the clock on our wall or the number of candles on our birthday cake. The universe operates on possibility, on potential, on the infinite nature of creation. So everything you've experienced up until now was exactly what you needed to become the person who could handle the amazing life that's waiting for you. What if those wasted years were actually the foundation for something incredible? 

we often get caught up in this idea that life should follow a certain path, go to school, get a job, get married, build a house, have children, retire. But that's not how the universe works. The universe is creative. It's spontaneous. It's full of surprises, and right now it's working over time, to bring you opportunities beyond your wildest dreams. But here's the catch, you've got to be ready, you've got to be open. You've got to be willing to let go of the old stories, the old patterns, the old you, because the universe can't pour new water into full cups. It needs you to become a new vessel, ready to receive all the goodness it has in store for you. So how do we do this? How do we prepare ourselves? It starts with your thoughts. Your thoughts are not just abstract ideas floating around in your head. They're real tangible things. There are electrical impulses and chemical reactions. Thery signals to the universe about what you want to create in your life. Every time you think a thought, you're sending out a broadcast to the universe, and the universe is listening. It's responding. It's rearranging itself to match the frequency of your thoughts. So when you think thoughts of lack, of not being good enough of it being too late, that's exactly what you get back. But when you start to think thoughts of abundance, of possibility, that's when the magic happens. This isn't just a feel good talk. This is science. at the most fundamental level, everything is energy. Your thoughts are energy, your emotions are energy, and energy attracts like energy, so when you start to align your thoughts and emotions with what you want to create, you're literally changing the quantum field around you. You're creating a new reality. But it's not enough to just think positive thoughts. You've got to feel them. You've got to embody them. You've got to become them, because your body doesn't know the difference between a real experience and one that you vividly imagine. So when you consistently think and feel as if your life has already been changed, your body starts to change. Your brain starts to rewire itself, your DNA starts to express itself differently. This is where meditation comes in, not just any meditation, but a specific kind of meditation that combines focused attention with elevated emotion. When you sit in stillness and really feel the emotions of gratitude, of joy, of love, as if your life has already been transformed, you're sending a powerful signal to the universe. You're telling it, this is who I am now. This is what I'm creating. And the beautiful thing is you don't have to wait for something outside of you to change before you can feel this way. You can generate these emotions right now, in this moment, you can close your eyes and see yourself living the life you've always dreamed of. You can feel the emotions of that life so intensely that your body begins to believe it's already happening. This is how you bend time. This is how you collapse time. This is how you bring the future into the present moment. Because when you're no longer waiting for something outside of you to change, before you can feel joy, before you can feel abundance, before you can feel whole, that's when you've truly stepped into your power. That's when you become a creator rather than a victim of circumstance. 

 

the universe doesn't care about our past. It only cares about our present. It only responds to who we are being right now in this moment.  who are you choosing to be right now? Are you choosing to be someone who's defined by their past mistakes, or are you choosing to be someone who's open to infinite possibilities? Are you choosing to be someone who's Stuck in regret, or are you choosing to be someone who's excited about the future? The truth is, your past does not equal your future, unless you choose to carry it with you, unless you choose to keep replaying those old stories, those old patterns. But you have a choice. You always have a choice. You can choose to let go of the old and embrace the new. You can choose to see your past not as a burden, but as a blessing, not as wasted time, but as valuable experience. Think about it this way, every failure, every setback, every moment of pain, it was all preparation. It was all shaping you, molding you, preparing you for this moment, for this opportunity to step into your greatness. Because let's face it, if everything had always gone smoothly, if you'd never faced any challenges would you really be ready for the amazing life that's waiting for you? Those challenges have given you strength. Those setbacks have given you resilience. Those moments of doubt have given you the opportunity to choose faith. And now, all of that experience, all of that growth, all of that wisdom, it's about to pay off in ways you can't even imagine.

But You've got to be willing to let go of who you were to become who you're meant to be. You've got to be willing to step out of your comfort zone, because the life you want, the life the universe is trying to give you, it exists outside of your comfort zone. It exists in the realm of the unknown, the unfamiliar, the uncertain. And that can be scary. it can feel safer to stay in the known, even if the known isn't serving us, but, on the other side of our fear is our freedom. On the other side of our doubt is our destiny. On the other side of our comfort zone is where the magic happens.

So how do we step into this new reality? How do we align ourselves with this universal plan? It starts with a decision, a decision to no longer be defined by our past, a decision to open ourself up to new possibilities, a decision to believe that the universe is working in our favor, even when we can't see the evidence yet. And then once we've made that decision, it's about taking consistent action. It's about aligning our thoughts, our words and our actions with this new reality we're creating. It's about catching yourself when you fall into old patterns and consciously choosing a new way of thinking. It Isn't about forcing change or struggling against your current reality. It's about surrendering to a higher intelligence. It's about trusting that the universe has a plan for you that's far greater than anything you could have imagined for yourself. It's about letting go of the need to control every detail and instead focusing on aligning your energy with what you want to create.

this doesn't mean to just sit back and wait for the universe to deliver everything to us on a silver platter. This is about co creation. The universe will bring us opportunities, but we've got to be ready to recognize them and act on them. It will open doors, but we've got to be willing to walk through them. And sometimes those opportunities might not look the way we expect them to. Sometimes they might come disguised as challenges or setbacks, but when you're in this state of alignment, when you're open to the universe's plan for you. You start to see everything as an opportunity. You start to trust that everything is happening for you, not to you. This is where faith comes in, not blind faith, but a faith that's born out of understanding how the universe works, a faith that's grounded in the knowledge that you are a powerful creator capable of shaping your reality through your thoughts and emotions, a faith knows that no matter what's happened in the past, your future is still unwritten. And here's the beautiful thing, when you start living from this place of faith, when you start aligning yourself with the universe's plan for you, life becomes an adventure. Those years you thought were wasted, they become the back story to your incredible comeback. Those mistakes you thought had ruined everything, they become the lessons that prepared you for your greatest triumphs. You start to see synchronicities everywhere. You start to feel guided, supported, loved by the universe. You start to trust the timing of your life, knowing that everything is unfolding exactly as it should. And most importantly, you start to enjoy the journey, because you're no longer fixated on some future goal, some future version of yourself. You're fully present, fully alive, fully engaged in each moment. This is what it means to live in harmony with the universe. This is what it means to allow the universe to restore all your wasted years. It's not about going back and changing the past. It's about changing your relationship with your past. It's about seeing every experience, every challenge, every setback, as a stepping stone that led you to this moment, this moment of infinite possibility.

So I want you to take a moment right now, close your eyes if you're in a safe place, to do so, take a deep breath, and I want you to really feel this truth in every cell of your body. the universe is about to restore all your wasted years. Can you feel the excitement of that?
 
 Can you feel the limitless potential that's available to you right now? Now, I want you to think about all those moments in your past that you've been regretting, all those decisions you wish you could take back, all those opportunities you think you've missed, and I want you to send love to those moments, send gratitude to those experiences, because without them, you wouldn't be who you are today. You wouldn't be ready for the amazing life that's about to unfold for you. Feel that shift in your energy as you release the burden of regret. Feel the lightness that comes when you choose to see your past not as a series of mistakes, but as a perfect plan that's led you to this moment, this moment of awakening, this moment of alignment with the universe. Now I want you to bring your attention to this present moment. Feel your feet on the ground, feel the air in your lungs, feel the energy coursing through your body. This is where your power lies. This is where creation happens, not in the past, not in the future, but right here, right now, in this moment, I want you to make a commitment to yourself, a commitment to no longer play small, a commitment to no longer hide your light, a commitment to step fully into your power and become the person you were always meant to be. Can you feel the strength of that commitment? Can you feel how it's already starting to change your energy? now, I want you to project your consciousness into the future. See yourself six months from now, a year from now, five years from now, see how different your life looks. See how much you've grown, how much you've accomplished. See the joy on your face, the spring in your step, see the lives you've touched, the impact you've made. Really allow yourself to step into that future version of yourself, feel what it feels like to be that person, and now bring that feeling back to the present moment. Let it infuse every cell of your body. Let it inform every thought, every word, every action. Because this is how you collapse time. This is how you bring the future into the present. This is how you bend reality. Remember, the universe doesn't operate on linear time. It operates on energy, on frequency, on vibration. So when you consistently hold the energy of your desired future in the present moment, you're literally bending time. You're creating a bridge between who you are now and who you're becoming. But here's the thing, this isn't a one time event. This isn't something you do once and then go back to your old ways of thinking and being. This is a practice, a daily practice, of aligning your energy with the life you want to create, a moment by moment, choice to see the perfection in everything, to trust the timing of your life, to stay open to the universe's plan for you, it's about waking up each morning and before you even open your eyes, feeling gratitude for the amazing day that's about to unfold. It's about catching yourself when you start to slip into old patterns of doubt or fear and consciously choosing thoughts of possibility and abundance instead. It's about going to bed each night, reviewing all the wonderful things that happened during the days and getting excited about what tomorrow will bring. And yes, there will be challenges. Yes, there will be moments of doubt. Yes, there will be times when it feels like nothing is changing. But this is where your commitment comes in. This is where your practice becomes crucial, because it's in those moments of challenge, those moments of doubt, that you have the greatest opportunity for growth. when you can look at a challenge, and instead of saying, Why is this happening to me, you say, what is this trying to teach me? That's when you've truly stepped into your power, when you can face a setback, and instead of letting it derail you, you use it as fuel to propel you forward. That's when you're in harmony with the universe. The universe is always working in your favor, always, even when it doesn't look like it, even when it feels like everything is falling apart, especially when it feels like everything is falling apart, because often things need to fall apart so that something better can fall into place.

So I want you to make a pact with yourself right now, a pact to trust the process, a pact to stay committed to your vision even when you can't see how it's going to manifest. A pact to keep showing up, keep doing the work, keep aligning your energy with what you want to create no matter what, because the universe is about to deliver, but it can only do that if you're willing to let go of the old if you're willing to release your attachment to how you think things should have gone, if you're willing to open yourself up to a plan that's far greater than anything you could have imagined . The universe is conspiring in your favor. All those years that you thought were wasted, they were just the opening chapters of your incredible story. The real story is just beginning, and it's going to be more amazing than you could ever dreamed. So step into your power, claim your birthright as a creator of your reality, align yourself with the infinite intelligence of the universe, because when you do, there's nothing you can't be do or have. There's no limit to what you can create. You are not a victim of your past. You are not defined by your mistakes. You are not limited by your current circumstances. You are a powerful, infinite being capable of creating miracles. You are a co creator with the universe, and the universe is eager to partner with you in creating a life beyond your wildest dreams. So let go of the old story. Let go of the regrets. Embrace this new chapter. Embrace the infinite possibilities that are available to you right now. Feel the excitement of that. feel the joy. Feel the freedom that comes with knowing that your past does not determine your future. Your future is determined by who you choose to be and what you choose to believe in this moment. So choose wisely. Choose thoughts of abundance of possibility of love. Choose to see the perfection in everything. Choose to trust the timing of your life. Choose to believe that the universe has your back. Because when you make these choices, when you align yourself with the creative power of the universe, that's when miracles happen. That's when time collapses. That's when all those years you thought were wasted suddenly reveal their purpose. That's when you step into the life you were always meant to live. Are you ready to say yes? Are you ready to step into your power? 
 
 The choice is yours, and I believe in you. I believe in your power to create miracles. I believe in your ability to transform your life. I believe that the best is yet to come for you. So take a deep breath, feel the power of this moment, feel the infinite potential that's available to you right now, and make the decision to step fully into your power.