BR #72 EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS WORKING OUT

#BR EP. 72 - EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT
In this transformative episode, I explore the powerful mindset shift of acting as if everything always works out for you.
Discover how aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with this belief can rewire your brain, elevate your energy, and attract the life you desire.
Learn practical tips for incorporating this mindset into your daily routine, the importance of surrender and trust, and how to turn setbacks into stepping stones. Whether you're facing challenges or striving for your dreams, this episode will guide you in becoming someone who consistently draws success, fulfillment, and positivity into your life.
Tune in to unlock the key to living a life where everything is always working out for you!

#BR EP. 72 - EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT // SELF ENQUIRY
1. How do you think your life would change if you genuinely believed that everything always works out for you? What would be the first thing you'd notice?

2. This episode emphasizes starting your day with gratitude and visualization. What is one way you could implement this practice in your own morning routine?

3. When you face setbacks or challenges, how could you reframe them as opportunities for growth rather than failures? Can you think of a time when something that seemed negative at first actually led to a positive outcome?

4. How does the concept of the quantum field, where infinite possibilities exist, resonate with you? How might you begin aligning with the best possible outcomes in your daily life?

5. Visualization and embodying your ideal self are central themes in this episode. What are some ways you could start visualizing your perfect day and acting as if you are already living your ideal life?

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Take a moment to consider, what if everything in your life consistently fell into place? How would you feel? How would you behave, and what kind of person would you become? This isn't just an interesting mental exercise, it's a powerful method to transform your life. When you act as if everything always works out for you, you begin to create that reality, you start becoming the type of person who naturally draws success, happiness and fulfillment. Let's delve into why this approach is effective. Your brain can't distinguish between what's real and what you vividly imagine. When you behave as if everything is falling into place, your brain starts to believe it. And once your brain believes something, it begins to search for evidence to back up that belief. Have you ever purchased a new item – a jacket, a phone, shoes and suddenly noticed the same model everywhere? that's your brain's reticular activating system in action. It filters information based on what you concentrate on. When you focus on things working out, your brain starts recognizing all the ways in which things are indeed working out for you. But it goes even further than that. When you genuinely believe and act as if everything is going your way, you alter your energy. You begin to resonate at a higher frequency, and that energy attracts similar energy. It's like tuning a radio to a specific station. When you're tuned into the frequency of success and positivity, that's what you receive.

Now you might be wondering, what happens when things go wrong? What about challenges or setbacks? Here's the key, even those challenges and setbacks are working out for you. They present opportunities for growth, learning and becoming an even better version of yourself. When you act as if everything is working out, you approach challenges differently. Instead of feeling defeated or discouraged, you ask yourself, how is this working out for me? What can I learn from this? How can I use this to become even better? This mindset transforms every experience into a stepping stone toward your goals.

Let's discuss the influence of our thoughts. Every thought you have triggers a biochemical response in your body. Negative thoughts generate stress hormones that make you feel bad, while positive thoughts produce feel good chemicals that elevate your mood and energy. when you act as if everything works out, you're consistently generating positive thoughts, literally altering your body's chemistry. But it's not just about feeling good. These positive thoughts and emotions impact your body at a cellular level. They affect your genes, activating those that promote health and deactivating those that cause disease. You're not just thinking your way to success, you're thinking your way to better health and longevity.

Now let's get practical. How do you begin acting as if everything always works out for you? It starts with your morning routine. When you wake up before even opening your eyes, take a moment to feel grateful. Imagine your day as already perfect, everything going smoothly, people responding positively to you, opportunities coming your way as you go through your day. Whenever you start to worry or doubt, stop and ask yourself, If I knew this was all working out perfectly. How would I feel? How would I act? Then act that way, as if you know it's all working out. When you encounter a challenge, instead of getting stressed, get excited, tell yourself this is going to be great. I can't wait to see how this works out. For me, this simple shift in perspective can change everything. Remember your future is shaped by what you do today, not tomorrow. Each moment is an opportunity to act as if everything is working out. Every decision, action and thought is crafting your future. So make sure your thoughts, decisions and actions are in alignment with the belief that everything always works out for you.

Let's explore the concept of the quantum field. This is the field of all possibilities. In every moment, there are infinite potential outcomes. When you act as if everything always works out, you're tapping into that field, aligning yourself with the best possible outcomes. Think of it this way. Imagine you're in a dark room filled with furniture. If you believe the room is dangerous or a completely new space you have never been before, you'll move cautiously, bumping into things and possibly hurting yourself. But if you believe the room is safe, maybe it’s your home and you know where things are, and you know everything will work out, you'll move confidently. You might still bump into things, but you'll see those bumps as guidance, helping you navigate towards your goal, like going to the bathroom at night in the dark, you’ve probably done it many many times. That's how life is. When you believe everything works out, you move through it with confidence, viewing setbacks as guidance, steering you toward even better outcomes. You become unstoppable because you know that no matter what happens, it's all working out for you. This doesn't mean you become passive, quite the contrary, when you truly believe everything works out, you become more proactive. You take more risks because you're confident they'll work out. You pursue bigger goals because you trust you'll achieve them. You become bolder, more creative and more innovative. Consider the most successful people you know, chances are, they act as if everything always works out for them. They have an unwavering belief in their ability to succeed. They see opportunities where others see obstacles. They expect good things to happen, and good things happen to them, but those people are not special. They don't have some magical power that you don't. The only difference is their belief and their actions. they take action based on that belief, and that's something you can cultivate too. Start small, pick one area of your life and act as if everything always works out in that area. Maybe it's your job, your relationships, or your health, whatever area you choose commit to acting as if everything always works out in that area for the next 30 days. Watch what happens. Notice how your feelings change, how your actions shift and how the world around you starts to transform. It might be subtle at first, but if you pay attention, you'll start to see changes. As you observe these shifts, your belief will grow stronger, and as your belief strengthens, you'll witness even bigger changes. It's a positive feedback loop that can completely transform your life.

Now, let's discuss the power of your imagination. Your imagination is one of the most powerful tools you possess. When you vividly imagine things working out, you're programming your subconscious mind, creating neural pathways that support your new belief. Give this a try. Close your eyes and vividly picture your perfect day. Visualize yourself waking up brimming with energy. Imagine everything flowing seamlessly, and see people responding positively to you. Feel the joy and satisfaction of everything working out perfectly. Make it as real as possible in your mind. Practice this daily, and you'll begin to notice changes in your actual life. You'll find yourself naturally behaving in ways that bring about that perfect day. You'll make choices that lead to things working out, and you'll attract people and opportunities that align with your vision. This isn't magic, it's neuroscience. You're literally rewiring your brain to support your new belief that everything always works out for you.

However, here's where many people hit a roadblock. They try this for a day or two, don't see instant results and then give up. Remember you are undoing years, perhaps even decades, of ingrained programming. It takes time and consistency to create lasting change. Commit to acting as if everything always works out for at least 30 days. Stick with it even when it feels uncomfortable or unnatural, even when your old habits and beliefs try to resurface, especially then, because that's when real transformation begins.

Think of learning a new skill like riding a bycicle, initially it feels awkward and unnatural, you feel separate from it, you feel unbalanced, but if you persist, eventually it becomes natural. You can cycle without thinking about the process. That's what happens when you consistently act as if everything always works out at first, it might feel forced or artificial. You might feel like you're just pretending, but if you stick with it, it becomes your natural state, it becomes who you are, and when it becomes who you are, that's when miracles start to unfold. That's when you begin to create the life of your dreams and become unstoppable.
 
 Now let's clear up a common misconception, acting as if everything always works out doesn't mean ignoring problems or living in denial. It doesn't mean pretending bad things don't happen. It means approaching every situation, good or bad, with the belief that it's ultimately working out for your highest good. So when you face a problem, instead of getting stressed or discouraged, get curious. Ask yourself, how is this working out for me?
 
 What can I learn from this?
 
 How can I use this to become even better? This mindset turns every problem into an opportunity for growth. Reflect on some of the greatest successes in your life, chances are, many of them followed setbacks or failures. Maybe you didn't get the job you wanted, but that led you to start your own business. Perhaps a relationship ended, but that freed you to meet someone else. Maybe you faced a health challenge that inspired you to completely transform your lifestyle. When you act as if everything always works out, you begin to see these connections. You start to trust the process of life. You develop a deep knowing that everything is happening for you, not to you. This trust empowers you to take bigger risks and pursue your dreams without fear of failure, because even if things don't go as planned, you know it's all working out for you. You know that every experience is leading you to something even better.

Let's discuss the power of your words. The words you speak are like instructions to the universe. When you say things like, nothing ever works out for me, or I always have bad luck, you're programming yourself for failure. You're telling your brain to look for evidence that things don't work out. But when you say, everything always works out for me, or I'm so lucky, good things always happen to me. You're programming yourself for success. You're directing your brain to look for evidence that things are working out. Start paying attention to your words. Catch yourself when you speak negatively, and consciously choose to rephrase things positively. Instead of saying, I hope this works out. Say, I know this is working out perfectly. Instead of saying I'm worried about this, say I'm excited to see how this works out for me. This isn't about denying your feelings. If you feel worried or anxious, acknowledge those feelings, but then choose to shift your perspective. Choose to believe that even though you feel worried, everything is still working out for you.

Now, let's talk about action, acting as if everything always works out. Isn't about sitting back and waiting for good things to happen. It's about taking inspired action from a place of trust and positivity. When you truly believe everything is working out for you, you become a proactive, you see opportunities everywhere, and you're more willing to step out of your comfort zone, because you trust that it will all work out. Think about a time when you were absolutely certain about something. Maybe you knew without a doubt that you would pass a test or get a particular job. How did you act? Chances are, you were confident, focused and took bold action. That's the way you want to approach every aspect of your life. Act as if your success is inevitable. Act as if the universe is conspiring in your favor. Act as if everything you touch turns to gold. This mindset will inspire you to take massive action toward your goals. But here's the key, detach from the outcome. Trust that whatever happens is for your highest good. This detachment frees you from stress and anxiety, allowing you to enjoy the journey, knowing that it's all working out perfectly.

Let's address another important point, acting as if everything always works out doesn't mean you'll never face challenges or setbacks. It doesn't mean everything will always go smoothly. What it means is that you approach every situation, good or bad, with the belief that it's ultimately for your benefit when you face a challenge. Instead of thinking, why is this happening to me? Think, how is this happening for me, this simple shift in perspective can change everything. It turns problems into opportunities and obstacles into stepping stones.

Remember, the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself. When you ask empowering questions, you get empowering answers. When you ask, how is this working out For me, your brain starts looking for answers. It starts finding ways that the situation is benefiting you. This doesn't mean you ignore problems or pretend everything is perfect. It means you approach problems with a solution focused mindset. You believe that there's a solution and that you have the resources to find it. You trust that even if you can't see how it's working out right now, it will become clear in time. Reflect on some of the toughest challenges you've encountered in your life, looking back, can you see how they ultimately worked out for you? Perhaps they made you more resilient, taught you important lessons or led you to where you are today. When you act as if everything always works out, you can recognize these benefits in the moment. You don't need to wait years to understand how a challenge has helped you. You can see and appreciate it as it unfolds. This perspective also helps you stay calm and centered in the face of difficulties. Instead of becoming stressed or panicked, you can remain grounded in the belief that it's all working out. This calmness allows you to think clearly and make better decisions.

Now let's discuss the ripple effect of this mindset. When you act as if everything always works out for you. You become a beacon of positivity. You inspire those around you. Your energy becomes contagious. Consider someone you know who always seems to have things go their way. How do you feel when you're around them? Chances are, their positivity and confidence lift you up, making you feel more optimistic and empowered. That's the kind of person you become when you embrace this mindset. You turn into someone who lifts others up, who instills confidence and hope in others, become a force for good in the world. As you inspire others, you create a positive feedback loop. The more you uplift others, the more others uplift you, the more positive energy you put out, the more positive energy you attract. It's like you're creating a growing field of positivity around you that continues to expand. 

Let's talk about the power of gratitude in this process. When you act as if everything always works out. You naturally become more grateful. You begin to appreciate everything in your life, even the challenges, because you know it's all working out for you. This gratitude amplifies your positive energy, making you more magnetic to good things. The more grateful you are, the more things you find to be grateful for. it's another positive feedback loop that keeps growing. Try this at the end of each day, write down three things that worked out for you that day. They can be big things or small things. The point is to train your brain to notice how things are working out for you. As you do this consistently, you'll start to see more and more things going your way. Your brain will become wired to focus on the positive, and what you focus on expands.

Now let's discuss patience and trust. Acting as if everything always works out requires patience and trust in the process of life. Sometimes things might not work out immediately or in the way you expected. But that doesn't mean they're not working out. Think of it like planting a seed. When you plant a seed, you don't dig it up every day to check if it's growing. You trust that if you've planted it in good soil and given it water and sunlight, it will grow in its own time. Your dreams and goals are like seeds. When you act as if everything always works out, you're planting those seeds in fertile soil, nurturing them with your positive energy and inspired action, trust that they will grow and manifest at the perfect time. This trust allows you to enjoy the journey instead of constantly worrying about the future or stressing about whether things will work out, you can relax and appreciate the present moment. You can find joy in the process of becoming, knowing that everything is unfolding perfectly. Remember, life isn't about reaching a destination, it's about who you become along the way. When you act as if everything always works out, you become someone who is confident, positive and resilient. You become someone who inspires others and makes a positive impact on the world.
 
 So how do you maintain this mindset when faced with setbacks or disappointments? It's all about perspective when something doesn't go as planned. Instead of seeing it as a failure, see it as feedback. Ask yourself, What can I learn from this? How is this preparing me for something even better? This perspective turns every experience into an opportunity for growth. It allows you to fail forward, using every setback as a setup for a comeback. It keeps you in a state of continuous growth and evolution. Consider some of the most successful people in history. They all face setbacks and failures, but what set them apart was their ability to maintain a positive mindset. They acted as if everything was always working out for them, even in the face of adversity. Thomas Edison famously said, I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. That's the mindset of someone who believes everything is always working out. Every failure is just a step closer to success.

Now let's talk about the power of visualization in this process, when you act as if everything always works out, you're essentially living from the end, you're embodying the version of yourself who has already achieved your dreams. Take some time each day to visualize your ideal life. See yourself living as if everything has already worked out perfectly. Feel the emotions of joy, gratitude and fulfillment, make it as vivid and real as possible. In your mind, this visualization isn't just daydreaming. It's a powerful tool for reprogramming your subconscious mind. When you vividly imagine your ideal life, your brain starts to believe it's real, it begins to create neural pathways that support that reality. As you do this consistently, you'll find yourself naturally taking actions that align with your vision. You'll make decisions that move you toward your ideal life. You'll attract people and opportunities that resonate with your vision. Remember, your brain doesn't know the difference between what's vividly imagined and what's real. by consistently visualizing your ideal life, you're training your brain to create that reality.

Now let's discuss the power of your emotions in this process, when you act as if everything always works out, you're not just changing your thoughts. You're transforming your emotional state. Emotions are energy in motion. They have a frequency of vibration. When you feel positive emotions like joy, gratitude and excitement, you're vibrating at a high frequency, and that high frequency attracts more high frequency experiences into your life. Think about a time when you were in an exceptionally good mood. Didn't it seemed like good things just kept happening? Perhaps people were friendlier, or you experienced some synchronicities or luck? That's because your positive emotional state was drawing positive experiences to you. On the other hand, when you're in a negative emotional state, you tend to attract more negative experiences. It's like you're tuned into the negative channel of life. When you act as if everything always works out, you're consciously choosing to tune into a positive frequency. You're choosing to vibrate at a higher level. And as you do this consistently, you begin to establish a new baseline for your emotional state. This doesn't mean you never experience negative emotions. It means you don't let those negative feelings define your reality. When you feel fear, doubt or worry, you acknowledge them, but then shift back to the belief that everything is working out for you.

Let's discuss the power of your identity in this process, when you act as if everything always works out, you're not just changing your behavior. You're changing who you are. At a fundamental level, you're becoming someone who expects good things to happen, someone who sees opportunities where others see obstacles, someone who trusts in the process of life. This shift in identity is powerful because your actions naturally flow from who you believe you are. When you see yourself as someone for whom everything always works out, you naturally take actions that create that reality. Start thinking of yourself as that person. Now, when you wake up in the morning, affirm to yourself, I am someone for whom everything always works out. Feel the truth of that statement in your body and embody that identity throughout your day.

Now let's talk about the role of surrender in this process. Acting as if everything always works out doesn't mean you try to control everything. In fact, it's quite the opposite. It means you surrender to the flow of life. You do your part, set intentions, take inspired action and maintain a positive mindset. But then you let go of the need to control the outcome. You trust that the universe has a plan that's even better than what you can imagine. This surrender allows you to stay open to unexpected opportunities and pivot when necessary without getting discouraged. It keeps you flexible and adaptable, crucial qualities in our ever changing world, remember, the universe has a much broader perspective than we do. What might seem like a setback from our limited viewpoint could be setting us up for something amazing that we can't even conceive of yet. When you truly surrender and trust that everything is always working out for you, you tap into a power much greater than yourself, you align yourself with the flow of life, and life starts to work for you instead of against you. Let's also consider the power of your environment in this process, your environment, the people you surround yourself with, the information you consume, and the places you spend time in all play a crucial role in shaping your mindset. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and support your growth. Seek out information that reinforces the belief that everything always works out. Create an environment that nurtures your positive mindset. This might mean distancing yourself from negative people or limiting your exposure to negative news. It might involve seeking out inspiring books, podcasts or videos. It could also mean creating a physical space that feels uplifting and supportive. Remember you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Choose wisely surround yourself with people who act as if everything always works out for them.

Finally, let's talk about the power of consistency in this process. Acting as if everything always works out isn't something you do once and then forget about it's a daily practice. It's a way of life. It's about consistently choosing to see the good, to focus on solutions and to trust in the process of life. It's about repeatedly affirming your belief that everything is working out for you, even when circumstances seem to suggest otherwise. This consistency is what creates lasting change. It's what rewires your brain and transforms your life. It's what turns this mindset from something you do into who you are. So commit to this practice every day. Make it a non negotiable part of your daily routine, even on days when you don't feel like it, especially on those days, because that's when this practice can have the most powerful impact. Remember, you're not just doing this for yourself. You're doing it for everyone whose life you touch. When you act as if everything always works out for you, you become a living example of what's possible. You inspire others to adopt this mindset. You contribute to raising the collective consciousness of humanity. Imagine a world where everyone acted as if everything always worked out for them. Imagine the level of innovation, creativity and positive change that would emerge. Imagine the problems we could solve, the dreams we could achieve. That world starts with you. It starts with your decision in this moment to act as if everything always works out for you. It starts with your commitment to embody this mindset, to live it, to breathe it, to become it for the next 30 days, act as if everything always works out for you. Wake up each morning and affirm this belief, carry it with you throughout your day. Apply it to every situation you encounter. Watch what happens. Notice how your feelings change. Notice how your actions change. Notice how the world around you starts to change. And remember, this isn't about reaching a destination. It's about who you become along the way. It's about the joy, the growth and the adventures you experience as you live. From this empowering belief. You have the power to create an amazing life. You have the power to make a positive impact on the world. And it all starts with this simple yet profound shift in perspective. Act as if everything always works out for you, because the truth is it does. Everything is always working out for you. Everything is always leading you toward your highest good. Everything is always preparing you for something even better. So step into that truth, live from that truth, become that truth, and watch as your life transforms in beautiful and unexpected ways. Everything is working out for you. And the best is yet to come.